The five ways through which you can rise in love and create amazing relationships rather than falling in love and creating very unhappy and unsatisfying relationships in the long run.
So the first point is,
Make sure that you spend some time doing something with yourself,
Whether it's anything that you enjoy doing like meditating or dancing or playing,
Going for walks in nature,
Reading,
Cooking,
Anything.
So do something daily that you actually like doing with yourself that makes sure you center yourself and stay connected with yourself.
Point number two,
Agree to disagree.
You don't always need to either prove yourself right or be very submissive to the other person's point of view.
You can happily agree to disagree where you have a different point of view and you respect your point of view as well and trust on your own point of views as well as well as respect the other person's point of view.
Point number three,
Do not make your partner the project of your life.
It's very important to focus on yourself as well.
Many times we have this tendency where we start thinking about what they need to be doing better,
How they can grow in their work,
How they should be emotionally better,
How they should be coping better.
So rather than making all your focus there,
Work on yourself,
Learn new things,
Focus on your own growth rather than always looking that way.
Point number four,
Draw loving boundaries.
Boundaries are very,
Very important in relationships and what boundaries really represent is that what are the things that you absolutely do not condone and do not appreciate,
Whether it's any kind of disrespect,
Whether it's any kind of mental,
Emotional,
Physical abuse.
So nobody can cross those boundaries and behave in a certain way with you.
And boundaries also ensure that you do not let other people's thinking,
Point of views and decision making abilities completely cloud your own judgment.
So boundaries allows us to take everyone's opinions,
Listen to everyone's point of views.
But the final judgment decision making is based on your abilities and analytical skill.
When you weigh all the pros and cons and then go ahead and decide things on your own in life.
And point number five,
Not being clingy.
It's very important that we don't have to do everything together when you are in a relationship.
It's OK to let your partner have some things that they enjoy doing on their own and give them the space as well so that you can both have things that you enjoy separately and have ample things that you enjoy together.
