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Recognizing And Escaping Toxic Relationships

by Samantha Linden, DBA, M.ED.

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Today, we discuss toxic relationships. These types of relationships are when we have someone in our lives who always makes us feel sad or bad about ourselves. They might say mean things to us or make us feel like we're not good enough. It's important to have friends who make us feel happy and loved, not sad and upset. Today, we discuss the red flags and how to remove them from our lives. Photo by Liza Summer

RelationshipsSocial ConnectionHormonesMental HealthEmotional WellbeingSelf ReflectionSelf CareGratitudeBoundariesHealingSelf LoveToxic RelationshipsHormone RegulationBoundary SettingHealing ProcessPositive Influences

Transcript

Today we're exploring social connections and how they impact our happiness,

Which is toxic relationships and how they can impact our happiness.

You listen to them while out for a walk,

Doing chores,

During your commute,

Or resting comfortably.

Now let's get started.

Research has shown that when we engage in meaningful social interactions,

Our brains release feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine.

These chemicals are known to boost our mood,

Reduce stress,

And enhance our overall sense of well-being.

With all that said,

The opposite side of that could be holding us back.

That is the effect so many of us also experience,

Which is toxic relationships and how they can impact our happiness.

It's a tricky subject to talk about,

But it's important to highlight the signs of toxicity and how we can break free from them.

First things first,

Let's break down what exactly a toxic relationship is.

A toxic relationship is emotionally draining,

Manipulative,

And harmful to your well-being.

It can come in many forms,

A romantic relationship,

A friendship,

Or even a family dynamic.

Toxic relationships can leave us feeling drained,

Anxious,

And overall unhappy.

It's important to recognize the signs of toxicity so we can take steps to protect ourselves.

So how can you tell if you're in a toxic relationship?

There are a few key red flags to look out for.

One significant sign is if you constantly feel belittled or devalued by the other person,

If they make you feel like you're never good enough or continuously criticize your every move,

That's a significant warning sign.

Another red flag is if the relationship is one-sided with one person always taking and the other always giving.

This imbalance can lead to resentment and unhappiness.

The impact of toxic relationships on our happiness cannot be understated.

Feeling truly happy and content is nearly impossible when constantly surrounded by negativity and toxicity.

Our mental and emotional well-being suffer and we may find ourselves feeling anxious,

Depressed,

Or even physically ill.

Toxic relationships can drain our energy and prevent us from pursuing our passions and dreams.

It's crucial to recognize the toll these relationships take on our happiness and take steps to break free from them.

Breaking free from a toxic relationship can be incredibly difficult,

But it's essential for our well-being and happiness.

The first step is acknowledging that the relationship is toxic and that you deserve better.

Surround yourself with a supportive friends and family who lift you up and encourage you to be your best self.

Set boundaries with the toxic person and communicate your needs and feelings assertively.

Remember,

Walking away from a relationship that no longer serves you is okay.

Get professional help if needed.

After experiencing a period of darkness and despair myself,

I finally found the light at the end of the tunnel.

It wasn't easy,

But with determination and support from loved ones,

I overcame my struggles and again found happiness.

I learned to appreciate the little things in life and focus on each day's positive aspects.

Through self-reflection and personal growth,

I could let go of the past and embrace a brighter future.

I am grateful for the journey that led me to this point,

And I look forward to each day ahead.

Once you've liberated yourself from a toxic relationship,

It's time to focus on finding happiness again.

Take time to heal and prioritize self-care.

Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment,

Whether painting,

Hiking,

Or dancing,

Or perhaps just silence.

I found happiness in silent meditation,

The peace it brought me,

And finally,

I recognized emotions I often ignored.

Surround yourself with positive influences that support and uplift you.

Remember,

Happiness is a journey,

Not a final destination.

Embrace the ups and downs and know you have the strength and resilience to create a life filled with happiness and positivity.

Toxic relationships can devastate our happiness,

But they don't have to define us.

By recognizing the signs of toxicity,

Setting boundaries,

And surrounding ourselves with positivity,

We can break free from toxic relationships and cultivate a life filled with happiness and fulfillment.

Remember,

You deserve to be treated with love and respect.

Remember,

You are strong and worthy and deserve all the world's happiness.

Once we have broken free of those toxic relationships and built positive ones,

In a world with constant distractions and chaos,

Prioritizing the relationships that bring us happiness and peace is more important than ever.

Let go of any negative energy.

Remember,

You cannot pour from an empty cup.

Self-love and self-care are essential in nurturing your relationships with others.

Take time to prioritize your needs and well-being so you can show up as your best self for those you care about.

Find what brings you happiness and prioritize it in your daily routine.

Whether writing in a gratitude journal,

Practicing morning gratitude,

Or engaging in a sleep meditation,

Gratitude is essential for maintaining a positive mindset and fostering healthy relationships.

Stay present,

Stay mindful,

And always choose love.

Take care,

My friend.

Remember,

You deserve happiness.

Meet your Teacher

Samantha Linden, DBA, M.ED.Boston, MA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Emma

August 27, 2024

As someone dealing with a toxic friendship, this meditation helped me in many ways. Thank you for creating this bundle of confidence for me! 👌

Lori

August 5, 2024

This was exactly what I needed to hear. Very informative & validating!! Thank you. 🪷🙏🏻🪷

Chris

July 6, 2024

Thank you for this talk. I'm going through something like this right now and these are the words I needed to hear!

Olivia

July 6, 2024

This rings so true for me! Just escaped a toxic relationship & I feel unbelievably better

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