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Cultivating Self-Love

by Alexandra Vartosu

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guided
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Meditation
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Everyone
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If your inner critic has been loud, or you’ve been struggling to feel on your own side, this is a gentle place to return. In this guided meditation, you’ll settle into the breath and soften the body, then bring your awareness to the heart space. You’ll be guided to visualize a warm, radiant light within you, a steady reminder that love and safety can be felt from the inside out. From there, you’ll reconnect with a memory of being loved and cherished, allowing your body to remember that feeling, not just your mind. You’ll then gently reflect on something you genuinely love about yourself, a quality, a strength, or a small act of kindness, and let that appreciation land. We’ll also work with compassionate self-talk and simple affirmations to help soften self-judgment and strengthen inner acceptance. You’ll close with gratitude for showing up, and a sense of tenderness you can carry with you into the rest of your day. Remember that you are worthy of your own care.

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Transcript

Let's take a beautiful pause together.

In the next few moments,

I will guide you through a tranquil meditation,

Creating a moment of serenity and self-love.

I invite you to really allow yourself to fully embrace this precious time,

Your sanctuary of peace amidst the demands of everyday life,

Because this is a guided meditation for cultivating self-love.

I invite you now to find a comfortable position.

By taking this time for yourself,

You allow a space in order to cultivate a deep sense of kindness and acceptance towards your own well-being.

This meditation will guide you towards embracing your true essence,

Fostering a serene and loving relationship with yourself.

So getting yourself comfortable before allowing your eyes to close and just take a moment to settle into here and now,

In this present moment.

Allow your body to relax,

Letting go of any tension or tightness.

Bring a conscious deep breath in and as you exhale,

Release any worries or distractions from your mind.

So inhale deeply and exhale slowly and gently.

There is no need to rush.

On your next out-breath,

Bring your attention to your heart center.

Visualize a soft radiant light residing within your chest.

This light represents the unconditional love that exists within you,

Waiting to be acknowledged and nurtured.

With each inhale,

Imagine this light growing brighter and expanding,

Filling your entire body with warmth and tenderness.

So just take a moment to breathe in and imagine this light growing brighter and expanding within you.

The more you breathe,

The more it grows.

The more you exhale and release,

The more space you make.

Allow this light to dissolve any self-judgment,

Criticism or negativity that you may be holding onto.

As you exhale,

Release any remaining doubts or fears,

Allowing them to dissipate into the surrounding space.

As you bask in the gentle glow of self-love,

Bring to mind a memory or an image of yourself where you felt truly loved and cherished.

It could be a moment from childhood or a recent experience.

Take a moment to feel the warmth and joy that accompanies this memory and allow it to permeate every cell of your being.

Allow yourself to fully embrace the love that was present in that moment.

Picture the setting,

The people involved and the expressions of love that were exchanged.

Notice the sensations in your body as you reconnect with this memory.

Maybe you feel a soft warmth in your chest or a gentle tingling in your fingertips.

Just take a moment to embrace these sensations as physical manifestations of the love that was present in that moment.

And I invite you to also feel the love wrapping around you,

Like a comforting embrace,

Soothing any lingering doubts or insecurities.

Know that you are deserving of this love and that it is always accessible within you.

Now take a moment to bring to mind something that you genuinely love about yourself.

Could be a quality,

A talent,

A personal achievement or even a simple act of kindness that you have shown towards others or yourself.

So just allow this aspect of yourself that you are genuinely in love with to come into focus and allow the feeling of love and appreciation for this part of you to wash over you.

Embrace it fully,

Knowing that it is a unique and beautiful aspect of who you are.

Feel a gentle warmth expanding within your heart as you acknowledge and celebrate this quality.

Allow it to radiate throughout your entire being,

Filling you with a sense of deep admiration and self-acceptance.

Reflect on how this quality or action has positively impacted your life or the lives of others.

Notice the ways in which it aligns with your values and contributes to your overall wellbeing.

And as you hold on to this self-love and appreciation,

Allow it to grow and spread to other areas of your being.

Realize that just as you love this part of yourself,

There are other qualities,

Talents and acts of kindness within you that are equally deserving of love and admiration.

Embrace the truth that you are a complex individual capable of embodying many wonderful qualities.

Celebrate the unique combination of traits that make you who you are.

Embrace the diversity within yourself and the richness it brings to your life.

And take a moment now to express gratitude for this aspect of yourself.

Thank yourself for embodying this quality,

For the growth and progress you have made and for the positive impact it has had on your life and the lives of those around you.

Now turn your attention to your inner dialogue.

Notice any thoughts or self-talk that may be unkind or critical.

And without judgment,

You're simply observing these thoughts as they arise.

As you become aware of them,

Gently replace them with words of compassion and acceptance.

You can repeat the following words to yourself,

Allowing their loving energy to infuse your being.

I am deserving of love and kindness.

I am enough just as I am.

I treat myself with gentleness and understanding.

I embrace my imperfections with compassion.

I am worthy of self-care and self-compassion.

Feel the truth and power of these words resonating within you.

Allow them to dissolve any barriers that may have prevented you from fully experiencing self-love in the past.

Release any expectations or judgments you may have placed upon yourself.

And instead,

Offer yourself the gift of unconditional acceptance.

Now gently bring your attention back to your breath.

With each inhale,

Invite self-love to flow into your being.

With each exhale,

You let go of any remaining resistance or self-doubt.

Feel this rhythm of your breath,

Syncing with the rhythm of self-love that flows through you.

With each inhale,

Invite self-love to flow into your being.

And each exhale,

Letting go of any remaining resistance or self-doubt.

Now sit with that for a moment longer.

And I also invite you to take a moment to express gratitude to yourself for showing up for this practice.

Do acknowledge the courage and strength it takes to cultivate self-love.

And know that this journey is ongoing.

And each time you return to this practice,

You deepen your connection with your own heart.

And as you slowly begin to bring this meditation to a close,

Take a moment to hold yourself in a warm embrace.

Feel the love and tenderness surrounding you,

Wrapping you in a blanket of self-compassion.

And carry this feeling with you throughout your day,

Allowing it to guide your actions,

Thoughts and interactions with others.

And when you're ready,

In your own time,

Gently open your eyes,

Taking a moment to reorient yourself to your surroundings.

And embrace this beautiful journey of self-compassion,

Knowing that you are deserving of love,

Kindness and all the blessings that life has to offer.

Meet your Teacher

Alexandra VartosuCalgary, Canada

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