#2 It’s Always About Ourselves

Today I talk about that what everyhing that happens around us is about purselves and not some specifc situation or person. If you have any topic that you'd like to hear me talking about let me know. Much love, Siya

Transcript

Hello,

Everyone.

Welcome to the Eternals podcast.

My name is Filipe.

Stay tuned for today's episodes.

Hello,

Everyone.

Welcome to the second episode of the Eternals podcast.

So today I want to talk a little bit about how everything around that happens around us in our body,

In our hologram,

In our reality is always about ourselves.

It's not about the situation itself.

It's not about the person itself.

It's always,

Always,

Always about ourselves and what that situation or person came to us for us to look at ourselves,

To heal about it,

To integrate something,

To do some shadow work,

Whatever you want to call it.

Actually,

I was thinking about other topic for the second podcast,

The second episode,

But last week I start feeling some symptoms,

Sick symptoms.

So my nose was kind of yucky.

I was feeling a little bit down with the muscle thing and so on.

And I wasn't understanding why,

Because I was doing everything to keep my,

To keep my immunology,

I think is the right word,

High so I can really care about myself.

So,

And so on,

Whatever.

So I started feeling those symptoms and I realized this was because everyone at home was sick.

And I realized that I had the program that when someone around me is sick,

I have to have the same symptoms so I can help them to heal faster.

Even I have done everything right with the,

I was taking some teas for my immunology,

Stuff like that.

So I was doing everything right with my body.

But anyway,

I got that symptoms.

So I was digging a little bit about it because I didn't understand.

So I start digging,

I meditate and I start talk to myself like I always do.

And I want to dig about stuff.

And I realized that I had that program.

So I had that program when everyone around me was sick,

Especially close people to me,

I had to have the same symptoms so they can heal faster.

So I was like a vessel,

A vehicle for them to help them heal.

But the thing is,

Even we are a channel that,

And you are a convict and we bring healing to others in therapies or whatever,

Or just to have to be around them because we emanate pure energies,

Doesn't mean that we have to that obligation to heal them in that way.

The only thing is you are here for the collective,

Of course,

But you are here for yourself.

And this program was a little,

I mean,

It was a little,

Wasn't right for me to have it in the way I feel it.

So I start to understand why,

Where this program came from,

Why I have it and why I was learning from it.

And I really is the program.

So I did the things that I used to do,

To heal,

To take care of this,

To understand and to release it,

To clear the program.

Then after,

I think when they are two,

I don't remember,

My sinusitis,

I think this is how it's spelled,

I'm not sure,

Showed up.

I always said that when I was a little girl,

Then it stopped showing for a while.

And this year I already,

This already showed up twice.

And of course,

When something shows up in us or for us is for us to look what we have to care about and to heal.

And for these two times,

It was two different things.

The first time that my sinusitis showed up this year was while I was doing a womb healing,

A womb healing.

So I'm a natural gynecology therapist.

So I was doing a healing for myself.

And during the treatments,

In the middle of the treatment,

My sinusitis showed up and I could understand that was related to the memories and the emotions that I was releasing through the treatment that somehow was connected to my nasal and to my sinusitis and so on.

The second time,

It was something completely different because I'm not doing any treatments on myself with natural gynecologists at this moment.

And sometimes I look at the metaphysic meaning of what I have,

But this is a common meaning.

It doesn't mean if you are having sinusitis,

The issue is from that specific meaning.

Like I said,

The first time this year I had was a totally different thing.

But this time I could relate with the metaphysic meaning of it.

So I was about to get annoyed,

Get annoyed by someone,

To have some kind of dignity of something that I said and the person doesn't listen,

But doesn't care about something like that.

But the thing is,

If that situation triggered me some irritation,

Some annoying or whatever,

It's not about the person itself.

So the thing that we need to ask ourselves when someone annoying us or whatever the situation is,

Is why in me I have these annoying because the other person is just a mirror for us to ever look at ourselves.

When I say person,

It also means situation,

Doesn't need to be with the specific person,

Doesn't need to be with people.

It's some situation or can be a situation at our house,

Something that blocks and you got really annoying of that.

It's kind of triggers a lot of emotions.

That happened for you to ever look at yourself,

For you to take care of yourself always,

Because we came here and we have a lot of problems since we are in our mother's womb.

So and then when you have birth,

When you are birth,

The problems keep intensified because of the TV,

The cartoons for the kids,

The schools and whatever.

And we have these distortions,

These programs in ourselves to release and to heal.

And when something is show,

It showed up to us through a person or through a situation,

It's something that we need to look at it.

So this irritation is annoying that I was feeling was not about that situation or that person itself.

This annoying was about myself.

I was an,

I don't want to get really detail of it because this is personal.

So I was annoying,

Annoyed about myself for something particularly.

And when that situation got me annoyed,

I understand,

I understood it was about me.

And I dig,

I dig to,

To understand what,

Where these annoying came from because that situation or the situations around us is just a small trigger for us to,

To ever look,

What is behind and what is the really cause of it and what is behind can be so many things.

And if you just heal the top line,

The top thing or top line,

I think this is correct to say like that you are not,

This construct all of the system of all of the program system,

Because you are only look at the top and you need to dig on yourself.

You need to do some shadow work,

Whatever you want to call it,

To go to the root,

To the main cause of that,

Of that emotion in these can come from a memory for another lifetime can come for something that happened in these lifetime.

It depends on what it is in on the person because it always the first person to person.

It's not,

It's not static on it is because we are unique in the,

What I have for me can be different what you have for you.

So that was it.

This was to try to explain you a little bit about everything is about ourselves only.

And as much as you healed yourself,

As much as you clear all of the problems,

Your allogram change and the situations in people,

Your allogram changes.

Well,

Once I I've read of someone that say,

Once you have learned what that people is came here to teach you that people,

Person,

Situation,

Whatever,

Just vanish from your allogram.

And it's true.

I can see from myself,

I had a bunch of people in my life that suddenly they just disappeared was without any reason explanation because nothing really happened.

You just,

This is all about energy and frequency,

Right?

So if that person it's no longer,

No longer has the,

The role to teach you something because you already have learned that they are released from it.

They don't have more of that role.

So you change because you clear cleared some programs is certain and you have learned something that you came here to this life to learn.

And you agreed to have learned in that kind of way.

You have,

You have agreed that in some points on your life,

Some situation or some person would came up to,

To teach you that that's pretty much it.

So I,

I usually got upset when someone was not,

Was not in my life anymore,

But since I got to understand this,

I just make peace with myself because now I can see what I have learned in what that person or situation was in my life.

What was the reason for her to be in my life?

And now it just,

It's easier for me.

And another thing that it comes easier through the time.

So as long as we keep healing ourselves,

Keep the clearing programs and distortions since do some shadow work it's,

It gets easier when you have a situation and it starts trigger something at you.

So in the beginning you,

I just start telling you are these,

You are whatever you are stupid,

You are,

You don't care about me,

You stuff like that.

This was,

This is just an example.

But when you start to clear programs and distractions,

You realize when you say to the person that triggers you something,

When you say you don't take care of me,

You are saying to yourself,

I don't take care of myself.

I don't love myself.

So instead of you start yelling to the person,

You are these,

You are whatever.

Just take a moment and think that you are saying that to yourself because that situation is all about you.

And this is gets easier when you start to do shadow work and whatever,

Because instead of you,

Instead of you react to the person,

You feel on you were where you are to say,

If you realize what are the aspects of you that you need to look at it,

That you need to heal.

This came to light for you to,

To acknowledge,

To learn something,

To release it and to integrate.

You always have to integrate what you heal.

It's because if you can face your shadows,

Okay,

You face your shadows,

You know that they are there,

But you never integrate that cells on you.

This is not your full state of being.

Okay.

So when you integrate all of all of that in you,

In yourselves,

You will not lodge that information of you because in your knowledge that you also have that shadow.

Sometimes you don't want to look and at bad things of you,

But these kind of bad things of you are there for a reason.

So,

And it's not because it's bad,

But it's not the world,

The word that needs to be said,

But it is a part of your,

Of yourself as well.

Okay.

Yeah.

So the other day,

Someone was asking what she does when someone,

What she can do to,

Sorry,

Sorry.

I'm not remembering it precisely.

Let me just,

Just the moment.

So was,

How can we control our emotions with others so that others and their emotions doesn't affect us?

The thing is,

It's not about the other in the situation,

Like I told before,

Because he told us about ourselves.

So in the emotions,

It's,

We are allowed to feel the emotions.

Okay.

The thing to control the emotions,

It's not,

I don't like it because if you are controlling emotions,

You are not allowing yourself to be.

And the thing is you need to feel wherever you are feeling or wherever you have a choice between react with the other person or situation or feel on yourself and understand why I understand while how,

Why all of that is happening.

You can always say,

Okay,

In this conversation,

I felt this,

This,

And this,

But this,

I felt this.

Okay.

You can explain what you are feeling.

So just the other person to acknowledge how you feel,

But the issue,

It's not about,

Not about them.

It's about you.

So first you need to learn how to feel your emotions in the correct way because you can feel the emotions by reacting it,

Or you can feel a knowledge,

The emotion on yourself.

The only thing that for the person or for the situation or the emotion itself doesn't affect us is because you are not acknowledging that part of yourself.

You are not looking at that part of yourself.

And I already said some stuff that you can do to help with that.

It's like shadow,

Shadow work,

Dig,

Digging about your emotions,

What that is coming from in that water are the problem behind it.

What is the distress,

The distortion,

Sorry.

And how can you do it?

You can meditate.

You can talk to her,

To yourself.

You can ask your body,

Where are you feeling that emotion and where the memory is is living.

Yeah,

It's living in living it.

This is some things that you can do for yourself and just yourself.

So there are things that you can heal by yourself.

However,

If you are stuck in something and your consciousness mind doesn't allow you to dig deeper,

You can always,

Of course,

You can always look for some therapy,

For some therapist to help you dig because we don't know everything and are things that are easier for us if there are someone helping us to dig a little bit instead of doing about ourselves because it's like we create some limits.

You create some,

I don't remember the word,

But whatever.

You create some wall.

Okay.

You create some wall for because you know,

If you go deeper,

You,

You probably get hurt because this is your all program system is based on because somehow in other life or some in the past in this life,

When you got deeper,

You got hurt.

And if you are doing it yourself and you got stopped because you,

You have this whole well to for,

For to protect you from getting hurt again,

Of course you can always and it's easier sometimes to have a other person to to guide guiding us through,

Through the process because it,

It simply is,

Is different.

So when you are doing it ourselves,

Even though we know what kind of questions you need to ask,

Sometimes you don't ask,

Ask that because we know that if you,

If you,

If we ask on yourselves,

We somehow can get hurt or whatever.

And sometimes the other person,

You just are more released and you are just more rendered to whatever it came from,

Whatever it came from.

So you can search for,

For a therapist that what I always think that really helped to,

To look at the belief and the learning and so on is the setting when you are setting,

When you are answering questions,

When you are talking,

When you are digging in this kind of way.

So wherever therapy,

You can talk about yourself,

Talk about your life and talk about what you are feeling.

It's good to,

To guide to the process of knowing the belief.

And the one,

One therapy that one service that I offer is the multidimensional quantum therapy,

Which I use multidimensional quantum techniques through,

I use a channel energy from source.

So the healing it's this wall where I,

While I'm talking to the person when we are talking,

I I'm already doing some quantum work instead of just,

Just talking.

So this is one thing that if you are looking,

You can do,

Doesn't need to be with me.

Of course it needs,

It needs to be with the person that you feel to do it,

That you are more,

You like more to do it,

But somehow you feel more close to the,

No,

Not close,

But connected to that energy in that person.

This is what you need to choose.

Of course you also add to,

To take a judgment on the kind of energies that it's used because you are healing yourself.

So as well,

So you need to not,

It's not to,

To,

To judge,

But it's to understand what kind of energies are used.

If they are finite life energies used in the therapy,

Or if there is a there are no life energies used.

These two things also make a huge difference on something.

I will I'm planning to talk a little bit more about these two things in other episodes.

But yes,

I think it's pretty much is this,

I hope we have enjoyed it.

And yes,

Everything is about our selves.

It's about our hologram always,

Always,

Always,

Even though there are collective programs,

Because there are,

When we are born,

We during,

In our whole life,

We are getting injected.

It's not the word,

But I'm sorry,

English.

It's not my first language.

We are constantly get to get,

Get looking all of the programs that they are putting inside us.

And most of them is,

Most of them know a lot of them are collective because they are putting the program for the collective to see and to have it about their own program.

Okay.

But even though they are collective programs,

It's always about ourselves and the reality that we have around us.

It's about ourselves in there are something that I don't know if I heard or if I read that I don't remember,

But it was like,

If you want the world around you to change,

You need to change your yourself.

You need to change within you.

Once you,

You cut the point that you are the person you are,

Then the energy that you want to be in yourself,

In your heart,

In your cells,

The things around you change.

The people around you change.

It's not the people itself that change,

But the way that you are looking at them change.

Also people that come and go in your life,

All of that change when you change yourself,

When you change that programs and restrictions on yourself.

Okay.

I think this is it.

Thank you so much for listening.

The podcast.

Yes.

Stay tuned for the next episodes.

I will have some really nice topics to talk to.

I'm not sure if the next one will be the one that I was supposed to do today.

Today I was,

I wanted to talk about the distortions of the mainstream divine feminine healing.

So probably this one will be the next one.

It depends what will come up because this week these symptoms on myself and wherever came up and showed up.

And that's why I,

I felt to talk about it.

But yes,

Stay tuned for the next episodes.

And thank you so much for listening.

I will leave in the podcast,

The links where you can find more about my work.

Thank you so much.