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To Be Strong But Not Hard & Soft But Not Weak: The Talk

by Gertrud Tavernier

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Let's first get clear on the idea of the intricate balance of 'Strong But Not Hard & Soft But Not Weak'. Discover how strength, like a flexible tree, and softness, like persistent water, can coexist harmoniously. We'll delve into how our movements reflect our inner thoughts and feelings, guiding us to live with resilience and compassion.

BalanceStrengthSoftnessMind Body ConnectionResilienceCompassionInner DialogueStrength TrainingFlexibilityStrength And SoftnessBody Mind Spirit ConnectionCompassion And EmpathySpinal Flexibility

Transcript

Welcome!

Today let's embark on a journey exploring the profound balance of to be strong but not hard,

To be soft but not weak.

Intertwined with the insight that the way you move is the way you think and feel.

This isn't just a concept it's a way of living,

A harmonious dance of our emotional and physical selves.

Strength in its essence is like the rooted stance of an ancient oak,

Unwavering yet flexible.

It's about resilience not rigidity.

It's about a core of steel wrapped in velvet.

When we embody strength without hardness we are like a willow tree in the storm,

Bending but not breaking.

Our movements,

Firm and deliberate,

Reflect a mindset of adaptable strength,

A balance of power and grace.

Softness is often misinterpreted as weakness,

But let's see it for what it truly is.

A gentle,

Enduring force.

It's the kindness in a touch,

The empathy in a glance.

Being soft but not weak is like water shaping the rock.

It's persistent,

Transformative.

When we move with softness our actions speak volumes of our deep empathy and our capacity for compassion.

In your daily life observe how this balance plays out.

How do your steps,

Your gestures,

Your posture reflect this dance of strength and softness?

In conversations let your words carry the weight of your conviction but also the featherlight of understanding.

In conflicts stand firm in your beliefs but remain open to others perspectives.

This balance is not just about how we interact with the world,

It's deeply rooted in how we see ourselves.

Cultivate an inner dialogue that's both encouraging and forgiving.

Let your self-talk be a reflection of this balance.

Nurturing yet empowering.

Remember the way we move,

Our physical expressions,

Our body language,

Is a mirror of our inner world.

A confident stride,

A gentle embrace.

Each movement tells a story of who we are.

When we align our physical movements with our emotional intentions we create a harmony that resonates within and around us.

So as you walk through your day let each movement be a conscious expression of strength and softness.

Let your posture reflect your inner balance,

A testament to the harmony of resilience and tenderness.

What's more,

You can adjust your physical training so that you can embody more strength or softness where needed.

Take a moment to reflect on the way you move.

Do you feel like you could add a dose of strength?

And incorporating strength training can be a good idea.

Or do you feel stiff and cramped at times?

Both in your body as in your mind.

Then flexible soft movement sessions might do you good.

I want to thank you for your kind attention and I invite you to also listen to the movement meditation on to be strong but not hard,

To be soft but not weak,

To literally embody these two aspects and allow them to transmute your thoughts and feelings as well.

Meet your Teacher

Gertrud TavernierBerlin, Germany

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